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		<title>Comment on What do men think about Breast Implants? by Sandra</title>
		<link>http://www.averagebutnot.com/2009/08/11/what-do-men-think-about-breast-implants/comment-page-1/#comment-2539</link>
		<dc:creator>Sandra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 12:06:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When you see pictures of ruptured and waste implants you realize how disgusting they really are. I&#039;m all for women who need surgery for aesthetic reasons after cancer but not for pure vanity over their natural form. Go to this site http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php to retrain your mind about what the natural female form actually looks like.

The reproduction of the female form has done a disservice to both men and women and their relationships. Women are not meant to be competitors. By reproducing the female form for men to admire, real women feel insecure. It is inevitable. Men are designed to compete for women - with strength, with confidence, bravery and all the other attributes men have which we admire. Women are designed to bring up children and care for others, to keep the family unit - if there is another female which gets the attention of her man whether it is imaginary or not it unsettles the women with feelings of insecurity that the man may leave, and this has led to clothes, fashion, makeup, plastic surgery, weightloss in order for the women to feel secure and to keep her man. I know this sounds rather sexist but in reality it is true and natural behaviour. Women invest more than a man into a relationship physically - to have a child is demanding on the body and the woman needs a man to help which is why we have concealed ovulations, to keep the man with her, to create a bond so the man helps with the childrearing. The man works, creates a home to entice a women to live with him - because while she is with him, he can be assure the offspring will be his.

Women enticing men with their looks/sex will only lead to disaster and has in many ways. The men have no reason to stay with a woman, the woman does terrible things to herself to keep herself looking good for fear the man will leave if she doesn&#039;t.

The media has created a monster and men and women are paying for it everyday in relationships that are constantly fighting against each other and society just to stay together and happy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you see pictures of ruptured and waste implants you realize how disgusting they really are. I&#8217;m all for women who need surgery for aesthetic reasons after cancer but not for pure vanity over their natural form. Go to this site <a href="http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php" rel="nofollow">http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php</a> to retrain your mind about what the natural female form actually looks like.</p>
<p>The reproduction of the female form has done a disservice to both men and women and their relationships. Women are not meant to be competitors. By reproducing the female form for men to admire, real women feel insecure. It is inevitable. Men are designed to compete for women &#8211; with strength, with confidence, bravery and all the other attributes men have which we admire. Women are designed to bring up children and care for others, to keep the family unit &#8211; if there is another female which gets the attention of her man whether it is imaginary or not it unsettles the women with feelings of insecurity that the man may leave, and this has led to clothes, fashion, makeup, plastic surgery, weightloss in order for the women to feel secure and to keep her man. I know this sounds rather sexist but in reality it is true and natural behaviour. Women invest more than a man into a relationship physically &#8211; to have a child is demanding on the body and the woman needs a man to help which is why we have concealed ovulations, to keep the man with her, to create a bond so the man helps with the childrearing. The man works, creates a home to entice a women to live with him &#8211; because while she is with him, he can be assure the offspring will be his.</p>
<p>Women enticing men with their looks/sex will only lead to disaster and has in many ways. The men have no reason to stay with a woman, the woman does terrible things to herself to keep herself looking good for fear the man will leave if she doesn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>The media has created a monster and men and women are paying for it everyday in relationships that are constantly fighting against each other and society just to stay together and happy.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Look Great Naked! (Part One) by Elisa</title>
		<link>http://www.averagebutnot.com/2011/07/11/look-great-naked-part-one/comment-page-1/#comment-2522</link>
		<dc:creator>Elisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 11:23:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I LOVE that you started with water and followed with exercise, rather than diet - all 3 points in this list are great for health, not just weight loss. paying more attention to food intake is no doubt coming in part 2 ;-), and it is also important for health, but while it is possible to eat fairly healthfully (albeit too much) and stay healthy but  not lose weight, the 3 items above and MUSTs for good health. And always good reminders!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I LOVE that you started with water and followed with exercise, rather than diet &#8211; all 3 points in this list are great for health, not just weight loss. paying more attention to food intake is no doubt coming in part 2 <img src='http://www.averagebutnot.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> , and it is also important for health, but while it is possible to eat fairly healthfully (albeit too much) and stay healthy but  not lose weight, the 3 items above and MUSTs for good health. And always good reminders!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on What do men think about Breast Implants? by Moona</title>
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		<dc:creator>Moona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Dec 2011 01:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmmm, I often feel that I would be better off as a female peacock; no pressure, no unrealistic expectation, no competition - all of that stuff is left to the guys! - and only choosing for me! When it boils down to it, I feel humiliated trying to &quot;live up&quot; to these stupid expectations. After all, under natural circumstances, I think, that women in the human species should, and I stress should, have mate choice. However, because we live and breed in our artificial environments, here you have women competing with other women for men - and thus the pressure to look like these grotesque, breast-implanted sized 0 barbie dolls made of plastic yuck. Firstly, no woman, under natural conditions, is a size zero and has D-breasts size - this only is an illusion created for men who watch too much porn. Fat can not be targeted - it spreads out. I do agree that every person, genetically, has particular fat reservoirs - that is to say, that generally, their fat  accumulates in a particular area(ass, breasts, etc) HOWEVER, they will also have fat that spreads out. Look at marilyn minroe - she does not have a flat stomach but has a small gutt and a generous bust - which is normal and natural.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmmm, I often feel that I would be better off as a female peacock; no pressure, no unrealistic expectation, no competition &#8211; all of that stuff is left to the guys! &#8211; and only choosing for me! When it boils down to it, I feel humiliated trying to &#8220;live up&#8221; to these stupid expectations. After all, under natural circumstances, I think, that women in the human species should, and I stress should, have mate choice. However, because we live and breed in our artificial environments, here you have women competing with other women for men &#8211; and thus the pressure to look like these grotesque, breast-implanted sized 0 barbie dolls made of plastic yuck. Firstly, no woman, under natural conditions, is a size zero and has D-breasts size &#8211; this only is an illusion created for men who watch too much porn. Fat can not be targeted &#8211; it spreads out. I do agree that every person, genetically, has particular fat reservoirs &#8211; that is to say, that generally, their fat  accumulates in a particular area(ass, breasts, etc) HOWEVER, they will also have fat that spreads out. Look at marilyn minroe &#8211; she does not have a flat stomach but has a small gutt and a generous bust &#8211; which is normal and natural.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hachiko, Japan&#8217;s most Faithful Dog by Betty</title>
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		<dc:creator>Betty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Aug 2011 19:48:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had the unconditional love of my poodle Ms Jazzy for 10 beautiful years and I miss her so much. It reminded me how my dog would sit and wait for me to return after weekend trips. When I saw the story I cried through the entire movie. I</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had the unconditional love of my poodle Ms Jazzy for 10 beautiful years and I miss her so much. It reminded me how my dog would sit and wait for me to return after weekend trips. When I saw the story I cried through the entire movie. I</p>
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		<title>Comment on Four Habits that pack on the Pounds by The Rock Workout Guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Rock Workout Guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Aug 2011 04:19:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post. I usually never post comments but I just had to for this. Remarkable advice! I have already been hunting for something similar to this for a long time now. Many thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post. I usually never post comments but I just had to for this. Remarkable advice! I have already been hunting for something similar to this for a long time now. Many thanks!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Weight Loss: Diet vs Exercise by Cristy</title>
		<link>http://www.averagebutnot.com/2011/03/29/weight-loss-diet-vs-exercise/comment-page-1/#comment-2346</link>
		<dc:creator>Cristy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Aug 2011 01:55:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been working on this a LOT this past year (doc&#039;s orders), and I&#039;ve been able to see and feel a difference, both in the mirror and in how my clothes fit.  My thoughts on this subject (diet) have done a 180, too.  I used to think the way those you&#039;re talking to here do:  I&#039;m not gonna&#039; give up my favorite foods - I&#039;ll just exercise more!  Nope.  Nowadays, I&#039;m all about the white meat, the olive instead of vegetable and then spray instead of pour when I can, skip the pasta and potatoes, minimize the bread and make it whole grain, heap on the non-starchy veggies, add fruit, reduce fat and salt, and do fresh whenever possible.  And all this on a budget in a town where most folks have never *heard* of Whole Foods, so needless to say, I&#039;m not shopping at one. :)  Great advice - all of it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been working on this a LOT this past year (doc&#8217;s orders), and I&#8217;ve been able to see and feel a difference, both in the mirror and in how my clothes fit.  My thoughts on this subject (diet) have done a 180, too.  I used to think the way those you&#8217;re talking to here do:  I&#8217;m not gonna&#8217; give up my favorite foods &#8211; I&#8217;ll just exercise more!  Nope.  Nowadays, I&#8217;m all about the white meat, the olive instead of vegetable and then spray instead of pour when I can, skip the pasta and potatoes, minimize the bread and make it whole grain, heap on the non-starchy veggies, add fruit, reduce fat and salt, and do fresh whenever possible.  And all this on a budget in a town where most folks have never *heard* of Whole Foods, so needless to say, I&#8217;m not shopping at one. <img src='http://www.averagebutnot.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Great advice &#8211; all of it!</p>
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